Originally published at Wake UP 2 LIFE!. Please leave any comments there.
Are you smothering your child or preventing their natural potential to surface and grow?
Are you enforcing an "illusion" that distraughts their beliefs of life?
Are you enforcing an "illusion" that distraughts their beliefs of life?
Where do we draw the line?
When does our love become paralyzing and when does our love become nurturing?
It's a fine gray line for many parents to walk on.
When does our love become paralyzing and when does our love become nurturing?
It's a fine gray line for many parents to walk on.
Quite often you hear parents say they are doing a certain "action" because they love their children - be it good or
bad "action". And how much is too much?
bad "action". And how much is too much?
When your child "suffocates"; that would probably be one sign we as parents are stepping into the paralyzing zones. Does "suffocating" your child ever work? I don't think so unless you want their being to die slowly within where they no longer
know who they are or what is anymore without scrutinizing everything.
know who they are or what is anymore without scrutinizing everything.
Parents who stay together in an unloving relationship because of their children...
Are they really NURTURING or paralyzing their children of WHAT IS?
Parents who smother their children and being over protective...
Are they really NURTURING or paralyzing their children of their capabilities to TRUST?
Parents who are overly strict with their children...
Are they really NURTURING or paralyzing their children's GROWTH and POTENTIAL?
Parents who abuse their children...
Are they really NURTURING or paralyzing their children with an illusion of WHAT LOVE IS?
Parents who nag their children endlessly...
Are they really NURTURING or paralyzing their children's PATIENCE from being SUPPORTIVE and EMPATHETIC?
Parents who don't give a damn about other people...
Are they really NURTURING or paralyzing their children from RESPECTING OTHERS?
Parents who have no sense of self worth and love...
Are they really NURTURING or paralyzing their children from SELF WORTHINESS and LOVE?
Parents who live in fear with everything they do...
Are they really NURTURING or paralyzing their children from TRYING THEIR BEST and BEING BRAVE in LIFE?
The list goes on and on. Too much or too little of everything has its consequences - nurturing or damaging.
We are not perfect parents but perfect to the best of our abilities. Sometimes what we think as "being loving" may not always be translated as that by our children. Sometimes we may think "we've done our best"; yet our children do not see as that. Sometimes we think it's in their "best interest" - IS IT? We shouldn't confuse ourselves with "WHAT REALLY IS" and "WHAT I THINK MIGHT or COULD BE" when it comes to our children and "their best interest."
What kind of parents are you?
The nurturing or paralyzing?
The nurturing or paralyzing?
Copyright 2010 Jade Goh All rights reserved
- Mood:
mellow
What would be on your "BUCKET LIST"?
(To answer: Assume at the current state of lifestyle and thoughts you're practising - reflect and answer.)
- Mood:
curious
Expressing love for things other than human beings is an effortless task for most. Why do most people find it a challenge to express his/her love to someone - platonic or otherwise? Most get tongue tied. It can probably be said it's almost as taboo as talking about sex!
Expressing one's love ought to be an enjoyable warm experience that people are encouraged to learn to embrace. Instead it becomes a stress by itself for many especially when it comes to love relationships between male-female, female-female and male-male relationships. Relationship dynamics between genders hold no strong grounds in influencing this dilemma. Every gender in most situations like this has felt the difficulty in expressing love openly due to cultural and parental influences and due to fear of rejection - not getting the love back at the same level.
We are all capable of loving someone at different levels. Pure love for someone should not be mistaken with "love addiction syndrome" or "delusional love"! An expression of love with essence as opposed to an expression of love that's "empty/insincere" has powerful effect on nurturing that warm and fuzzy feeling in each of us - building a more loving community and partnership.
We are also capable of loving many people at the same level. Love has no boundaries when it's purely connected and nurtured.
LOVE comes from FORGIVENESS.
LOVE comes with PEACE.
LOVE comes with UNITY.
LOVE comes with LIGHT.
LOVE is POWERFUL - love builds peaceful partnership and communities.
LOVE comes with RESPECT.
LOVE comes with UNDERSTANDING.
LOVE comes with WISDOM.
LOVE comes with HONESTY.
LOVE comes with COURAGE.
LOVE is the GIANT UNIVERSAL FORCE that PREVAILS and NURTURES!
Are you expressing your LOVE to everyone you purely love openly?
If NOT, WHAT are you waiting for?
If NOT, WHAT are you waiting for?
Copyright 2010 Jade Goh All rights reserved
- Mood:
determined
"People are afraid of "death" and people are also afraid to receive & accept LOVE in the last stage of their lives. Is there a conflict here?"
"Walk your own journey that feeds your soul and feel blessed when there are people who choose to walk with you in your journey to keep you and each other company."
"LET others THINK for themselves! LET YOURSELF think FOR YOURSELF!"
"Big tasks can easily overwhelm the MIND. Break down the task from BIG to SMALLER and SMALLER; and to the SMALLEST then WORK FROM the SMALLEST. CRAWL when you NEED TO; WALK when you are READY; RUN when you are MORE CONFIDENT; LEAP when you are ENERGIZED!"
"Every DISCOMFORT we feel; there's SOMETHING to LEARN about OURSELVES and others."
"Not being honest with yourself is setting yourself for more disappointments. Expectations have to be equal to honest reality."
"Share your "living" loving moments with your loved ones for they or YOU may not be around tomorrow as no one can possibly predict his/her own life timeline."
"Awareness creates potential for change; Knowledge creates workable actions."
"NEVER feel TOO OLD to LEARN something when WE ARE still ABLED in some or every way."
"EMBRACE the BEAUTY and BLESSINGS while they last within the moment(s)."
"START MANIFESTING what you WANT into the Universe. STOP manifesting what you DON'T want! Are you aware of what "vibrations" you're sending to the Universe? Think about it!"
Watch what you say everyday about yourself - which is more? Positive or negative? Empowering or disempowering?"
"A good awakening sometimes comes in shocking or bizarre ways."
"The only person that's stopping you from living your dreams is YOU!"
Copyright 2010 Jade Goh All rights reserved
- Mood:
artistic
How was your story told in 2009? Did your story follow the script you had written at the beginning of 2009 or was it revised time and time again as time passed within that year? Did you write it yourself or did someone write it for you?
2010 has just arrived into our lives. Have you thought about how you would like to write the script of your life story for this year? Would it be a script full of abundance and love? Or perhaps a script full of adventure and excitement? Or maybe a script of letting go and healing? And the list goes on and on.
We write our own story script as we walk along with time in life. We hold the pen/brush, the eraser and the world around us and the universe are our paper or doodle pad whichever suits you - writer or artist.
Who's the writer or artist in your life now? Who holds the pen or brush? ARE YOU?
Power is easily given away; and it is as easy to take it back when we put our mind to shifting perspectives and regaining the power in our lives. It's just a matter of - Do you want to GET it back? or Do you want to continue to GIVE it AWAY?
Knowing that we each hold the power to write what we want; erase what we want and re-write what we want on our paper of life is something to keep in mind as we face the challenges ahead in our lives for 2010.
Be the WRITER, PAINTER, ERASER and RE-WRITER of your life! All you need is take the initiative to take the first step and then another and another and before you know it - you are writing beautiful stories in your life. Morbid stories would be of yesteryear.
Who do you want to be? The WRITER or Co-Writer?
Copyright 2010 Jade Goh All rights reserved
- Mood:
amused
Some communities may actively be a part of us at some point of our lives and other communities become what our lives stand for and remain as a big part in our daily lives.
So many of us are so afraid to be our authentic selves and we try to "FIT" into a community that we may/do not belong that empowers our being to our higher purpose of life. We exhaust ourselves and live behind a facade of illusions. This need stems from parental and societal influences that could steer us away from our authenticity of being.
How parents and society can help shape a better authentic community that fits each individual's higher purpose in life that empowers rather than exhaust?
Everyone has a special purpose in his/her life and a set of special talents and skills that empower them than destroy them. Tapping into this realm of being and consciousness is a challenge for many "misguided" souls out there.
Find your authentic self; DON'T lose your authentic self that empowers you to your higher purpose in life.
MUST we "fit" into many communities?
Are you trying to "FIT" into a community that your authentic self do not belong?
What is your authentic self?
What is your higher purpose in life?
How can you empower your authentic being?
Are you trying to "FIT" into a community that your authentic self do not belong?
What is your authentic self?
What is your higher purpose in life?
How can you empower your authentic being?
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved.
- Mood:
contemplative
I also do take the opportunity to reflect upon the coming new year what I'd like it to be in the spiritual sense mostly and reflect upon them at the end of the year to see how many I've covered. I wouldn't beat myself up for not completing some on that list but take the opportunity to reflect why it wasn't important for me to complete them that year and so forth. It's been a liberating experience.
Quite often we have the tendency on setting New Year Resolutions and holding that mentality of "HAVING TO" finish it by hook or by crook in that year. There is nothing wrong in such great determination and it is encourage to hold a positive determination to achieving your goals set out - however some might list unrealistic goals that is out of their control 100% and put stress in their lives for no positive reasons. Such instances may paralyze one's forward momentum motivation and even encourage depression to set in.
We have to be clear on what is realistically achievable in the set time frame be it weeks, months or a year and be more flexible with ones that are in a way out of our control like health; finding a life partner, etc. These are elements that require others to consent be it your body or someone else.
And through a recent meditation "Winter Solstice Meditation" during one of my tele-classes with Alan Seale; I was able to reflect even deeper of what 2009 was and what 2010 would be for me which has been a very spiritual journey for me that touched my BEING deeply.
My reflections...
What was 2008 for me?
- A year of CLARITY
- A year of exploration of the soul and cleansing of the soul
- A year of wisdom to the future
- A year of living life
- A year of helping, creativity and learning
- A year of reflections and reuniting with long lost friends
- A year of connections
- A year of more financial freedom
What was 2009 for me?
- A year of GROWTH
- A year of shifting perspectives
- A year of experiences
- A year of connecting within and outwardly
- A year of taking charge of life
- A year of letting go and healing
- A year of understanding
- A year of creativity
- A year of regaining balance: Mind, Body and Spirit
- A year of better financial management
- A year of helping others in their personal development
- A year of career and life transition
- A year of honesty
- A year of change
- A year of coming out of the shell
- A year of beautiful challenges
- A year of exploring boundaries
- A year of great awakening
- A year of soul cleansing
- A year of beautiful memories
- A year of reconnecting with old friends and connecting with existing friends
- A year of activities
- A year of sharing
- A year full of WISDOM
WISDOM from "Winter Solstice Meditation"
This was an emotional spiritual journey for me during this meditation - healing and uplifting experiences to awaken to discoveries - existing and new. The Universal energy has shone light within. :)
Words that ran through my mind at each stage of the meditation of discovery - visiting dark places within, inviting light into within, letting go and embracing 2009/2010 are as follows:
Love, Heal and Taking Charge in 2009. Release judgments for 2009.
What else have I not discovered within that wants to happen or be created?
Love, Heal and MAKE A DIFFERENCE in 2010! Embrace and open doors to LOVE for 2010.
What to share with the world:
- My Strengths
- My Passion
- My Love
- My Wisdom
Inspired by the meditation upon reflection on the wisdom; here is a short piece of something I came up with to share with you.
Invite LIGHT to shine into pain and HEAL
Invite LIGHT to shine into confusion for CLARITY
Invite LIGHT into uncertainty for WISDOM
Invite LIGHT into doubt for TRUST
Invite LIGHT into fear for COURAGE
Invite LIGHT into courage for EMPOWERMENT
Invite LIGHT into negativity for POSITIVE THINKING
Invite LIGHT into balance for ENERGY
Peace be with you and with much love...
What are your reflections for the passing year?
What would you like to manifest for the coming year?
How do you want your future to reflect? How flexible are you? Are you being realistic?
What would you like to manifest for the coming year?
How do you want your future to reflect? How flexible are you? Are you being realistic?
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved
- Mood:
awake
Yes, they can be I say!
When we are limiting someone from his/her personal growth for what "we think it's good for him/her" is really disempowering the person from their real potential and limitations.
Perfect examples are over protective or over controlling parents of their children. Most grow up not knowing who they really are and what their real strengths and limitations are!
A person living life to his/her untrue purpose in life is as good as living as a robot driven by a master controller!
Are you empowering your child?
Are you disempowering your child?
How can you guide your child to realizing his/her true being, potential and limitations?
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved
- Mood: curious
Most of us were programmed from a very young age that there is a specific mould we need to fit into - to be successful, respected, happy and so forth. Little that we know; with each of those little "unauthentic" imprints imprinted into our "mind map"; we lose our identity that's authentic to us from the day we were formed and brought to life.
As we go through the different stages of our lives; we either build or destroy our authentic identity! Parents play a big role in nurturing their child's "mind map" followed by other "programmers" the child interact with. How we as parents encourage the authenticity of our child will determine if our child would be traumatised with an "identity crisis" or not.
Parents as the adults who "should know better and everything" which is the popular belief of society are in fact most of the time ignorant or clueless of their indirect influence.
Every reaction and action both parents "play" in front of their child is information for the child to process and has an indirect influence on programming and imprinting a specific information or "code" in the child's "mind map"!
If there was much "authentic" love and warmth between the parents - the loving code is programmed.
If there was much "authentic" hardship and complaints - the hardship and nagging code are programmed and so forth.
My question is....
How aware are parents and the "other programmers" of his/her influence? Probably an arguable number! Many of us are unconsciously ignorant!
In the stages where infants are preparing their journey in life on earth, everything is a mystery and everything is TRUTH! They question with PURE CURIOSITY and a PURE MIND. Their minds are super expandable until one imprint after another takes refuge in their minds becoming the ultimate truth until proven otherwise by future experiences.
By the time our minds are cluttered with "unauthentic truths"; we start losing pieces of our authenticity. This in turn leads to confusion and depression. We hit an identity crisis! What now?!
Without the right tools, most people would just spiral down into the deep dungeon of LOST land with no free pass to return.
Just like in computer systems; when a programmer writes a code for a system - if everything was coded correctly; everything functions. When a programmer makes a "mis-programming" somewhere or when a programmer writes a bad code - everything is corrupted. Once identified where the bad code is; rectified - the system regains its functionality.
Our "mind map" works the same way. It can easily be corrupted with just a few "bad codes" that would impair our authentic functionality in life.
Our "mind map" CAN be reprogrammed to regain our authenticity. Life is mysterious and your authentic soul within that accompanied you to this life will never stop nudging you when you are off your authentic route. It will nudge you to find that "bad code" within you and force you to "re-write" the code to put you back to your authentic path for this life.
When our authentic path is in line; PEACE within evolves; darkness turns to LIGHT; confusion turns to CLARITY; emptiness turns to CONTENTMENT; sadness turns to HAPPINESS; discouragement turns to EMPOWERMENT and hatred turns to ACCEPTANCE, FORGIVENESS and LOVE.
ARE you LIVING with AUTHENTIC you?
What's your "mind map" like?
How has your "mind map" tainted the AUTHENTIC YOU?
What are you doing about that?
Parents - How are you "programming" your child?
What's your "mind map" like?
How has your "mind map" tainted the AUTHENTIC YOU?
What are you doing about that?
Parents - How are you "programming" your child?
Are you aware of what have you imprinted unconsciously?
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved
- Mood: awake
"Coming from truth - Only AUTHENTIC change can happen and last."
"There are many faces to a truth and there are many ways for sharing the same truth."
"Sometimes the BEST thing you CAN ever DO for yourself is to just simply LET GO!"
"Perspective is a CHOICE not a rule! Perspectives are what will empower or disempower a person, a community, a nation and the world!"
"Beautiful experiences UPLIFT the soul!"
"Creativity is not encouraged when our minds have no room for playing around."
"Time does not change. Only 24 hours and ONLY 24 hours. Tasks do change - can become more/less - it's how we manage them that makes a difference in the quality of the outcome to the tasks, our life balance - mind, body and spirit." "Peace within comes from making peace with everything in your outside world."
"What we see today may not be what we will see tomorrow or after. What we saw yesterday may not be what we are seeing today. Or they could be the same - mystery will unfold itself - just be aware when it hits."
"It's EASY to get into the mode of DO, DO, DO when doing something you're passionate about and it's HARDER to STOP the DO, DO, DO in that state with all the "positive adrenaline" pumping in the system. It is so IMPORTANT to find BALANCE and REALLY TAKING CARE of our well-being - Mind, Body & Spirit!"
"Let there be LOVE, PEACE, JOY, SMILES, LAUGHTER, FUN, POSITIVITY around you and within you."
"Enlightenment comes from awareness within - creating actions aligning to one's purpose in life - radiating energy throughout internally to embrace and outwardly to share with the world."
"See me from the EYES of NOW and TODAY. See me NOT from the eyes of yesterday and past nor from the eyes of the future BUT NOW."
"Life is fragile. Remember to LIVE while living."
"BE the MASTER of your fears; NOT the SLAVE of your fears!"
" 'Business' is inanimate....the PEOPLE is the LIFE SOURCE of it."
"One day at a time; One task at a time; One step at a time - Achieve wins of abundance, enjoyment, accomplishment and harmony within."
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved
- Mood:
accomplished
Positive Awareness CREATES ACTION
Positive Awareness ALLOWS CHANGE TO HAPPEN
Positive Awareness CREATES HARMONY and BALANCE
Positive Awareness ALLOWS more POSITIVE ENERGY to FLOW
Positive Awareness CREATES HEALTHY LIVING
Are you holding Positive Perspectives about yourself, a situation or someone in spite of your shortcomings, someone's flaws and the negative experiences?
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved.
- Mood:
refreshed
What she has shared in that seminar was so relevant to networking practices. Her wisdom shared - the experiences and strategies were powerful tools to carry with us as networkers.
I've networked quite a bit in my lifetime as well and some of the incidents that Ronnie had shared did hit home like dejavu. People network for many reasons and for their own personal reasons which may very well be VERY different from our perspectives.
I personally do stress on making connection. To me that is much richer and fulfilling than a "surface/fake" connection! And really we don't have to pressure ourselves in trying to make everyone love us! They don't need to! It's their right and so is our rights not liking them for whatever reasons that may not be resonating with who we really are and represent! Respecting one's differences is a jewel not a curse.
Networking can be really tricky and disempowering for some without the right mindset and tools to tackle the experiences you're going to face! Communication and Interpersonal skills - important tools to have in this globalized interaction that we do today. And the ability to SHIFT PERSPECTIVES fluidly like the river flowing through, over, under and along every obstacle it hits.
BE clear of your intentions for networking! Don't expect everyone to HAVE TO buy into what you are giving/sharing! Enjoy the experience of KNOWING and LEARNING from each moment of the experiences when you NETWORK! Networking can be fun when you let it be FUN and enjoyable! It's just a matter of shifting one's perspectives as each moment passes by. :)
What are your REAL intentions for networking?
Why do you network?
What is your Networking Style?
Does it compliment and resonate with who you are and what you represent?
Do you network to CONNECT or DISCONNECT?
How rich are your connections?
How sincere or insincere are your connections?
Why do you network?
What is your Networking Style?
Does it compliment and resonate with who you are and what you represent?
Do you network to CONNECT or DISCONNECT?
How rich are your connections?
How sincere or insincere are your connections?
- Mood: contemplative
Different cultures and upbringing bring about different behaviours and different styles of communication. They also influence how one may perceive the other when interacting. Some are more vocal, others are more reserved, some are more authentic and others are less. Some choose to connect more and others may choose to keep a certain distance or stay somewhat disconnected.
Adaptation is one key to communication harmony but it can also be said that adaptation can also be a killer of communication harmony - communication within oneself and with others. When we communicate authentically of who we really are for WE ARE; the soul is energized. When we don't communicate authentically; the soul's energy is weakened and thus puts a toll on our well-being.
How authentic are we when we communicate with another being?
Are we truly trying to connect with another soul or are we just putting on a front to be polite?
Do you want to be energized or weakened soulfully?
Are we truly trying to connect with another soul or are we just putting on a front to be polite?
Do you want to be energized or weakened soulfully?
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved.
- Mood: awake
"PERSPECTIVES are so important in our daily lives in determining the outcome of every moment in our lives."
"PERSPECTIVES are so important in our daily lives in determining the outcome of every moment in our lives."
"Never lose your AUTHENTIC SELF!"
"Find your AUTHENTIC self; Don't lose your authentic self that EMPOWERS you to your higher PURPOSE in life!"
"We are capable of LOVING many beings; not just one but many. We just need to tap into the AUTHENTIC LOVE within us to SHARE more love around."
"Embrace Creativity - Let your Creative side grow and shine - Creativity brings an abundance of possibilities to everything you do and experience in life."
"Stress is caused by ourselves in most aspects and in turn affects our body, mind and soul. When we learn to balance that; harmony can take place to live a healthier and less stressed life."
"Choice of actions are affected by our own perspectives of our situations and experiences."
"A union is all about LEARNING about the UNIQUE individual and find HARMONY within TOGETHER."
"Everyone has the right to their perspectives and judgments - It's OUR PERSPECTIVES to that is MOST IMPORTANT!"
"It's easier to BLAME others than OWNING up to OUR own IGNORANCE and ILLUSIONS."
"Empowering PERSPECTIVES creates HARMONY."
"SHIFTING Perspectives and LETTING GO are LIBERATING."
"I accept and embrace every imperfection for they are perfect as they are that will just empower my being when I allow it to do so."
"When you continue to look externally to feel complete but within - internal and external harmony can never be harmonized."
"TRUE AWAKENING begins with an HONEST step."
"Every experience is awareness and wisdom gained."
"Everything starts with that one step then another and another. Every step may come with challenges but they are there to build your "muscles" for greater things to come into your life."
"Slice your overwhelming tasks into smaller pieces for easier 'digestion' to your system and remember to take time to relax with yourself, your love ones, and share the light with every soul you touch - send it out to the Universe."
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved.
- Mood: amused
"BE COMFORTABLE in your OWN skin
and
BE COMFORTABLE being different from some people..."
and
BE COMFORTABLE being different from some people..."
It is so easy to lose ourselves in this world trying to "FIT IN" to the perspectives of societies, friends, professional counterparts and loved ones be it in our own community, personal and professional relationships to co-exist in this world.
Our IDENTITY - our strenghts and weaknesses are all a part of us. We carry them in us. We have to learn to BE COMFORTABLE in our OWN skin and BE COMFORTABLE being different from others who don't always see eye to eye with us.
When we choose to "Embrace our unique differences and embrace our similarities"; we stand a chance for better harmony within our TRUE SELF. We are able to shine and radiate all around to the people who can sense that greatness in us and attract the same greatness into our lives to build a community that is TRUE to our TRUE IDENTITY!
Who's Skin are you wearing? Mine or your OWN?
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh (Positivity Lounge) All rights reserved.
- Mood: amused
"Truth is what you choose to see, believe and accept as reality in your world."
“In every gloom; there is beauty that is awaiting to penetrate through the cloud of gloom.”
"Joy that radiates from the heart is infectious throughout your body, mind and soul and continues to infect everything that you encounter. When you hit this spot; you know the joy is pure as it can be. SPREAD LOVE; SPREAD JOY! INFECT everyone with your PURE JOY!"
"Continue to DETACH from negativities and useless clutters - FEEL the LIGHTNESS as each of the "heaviness" get out of your way!"
"It's OK to be NOT in control all the time and surrender to the moment!"
"You really NEED to KNOW WHO YOU ARE inside to create your UNIQUE IDENTITY that radiates to the world around you! If you're confused inside everything on the outside will be as scattered and unfocused in spite of the 'efforts' you try to put in!"
"Every failure is not a disaster unless you choose to hold that perspective. It is an opportunity to learn and be better! Stretching yourself out too thin is just going to make you vulnerable to the environment! You can snap easily. There's no solid foundation! Gain your mass back! FOCUS on what's most important to you!"
"Avoidance helps keep your reality hidden temporarily but it can never keep it hidden forever. Face your FEAR - the scary monster within you! IT can only have power if you give to it continuously! Who's the BOSS - FEAR or YOU?"
"Quite often the SOLUTION is RIGHT in front of our EYES - SIMPLE - YET we STRUGGLE/FAIL to SEE IT INSTANTLY!"
"BE COMFORTABLE in your OWN skin and BE COMFORTABLE being different from some people..."
"Deaths are good reminders of life to LIVE LIFE while you still have it!"
"Embrace YOUR positivities; KNOW YOUR strengths and LET them SHINE!"
"When we STOP blaming others for our 'negative' decisions made; we START really LIVING our empowered lives."
"Authentic love does not judge but accepts. It does not vanquish self authenticity and unions in life; it empowers your being and unions. It does not diminish or break you and your unions in spite of challenges of nature and humanity that bombard you and your unions with others."
"Educate your future generation to have bigger hearts; not a closed mind and inconsiderate minds."
"Parents - you play a BIG role in imprinting "good/bad perspectives/behavior" in your child! Stop the ignorance and create a better loving community!"
"A GIFT from the heart from one moves the world; GIFTS from the heart from the world moves the Universe."
"PERSPECTIVES are so important in our daily lives in determining the outcome of every moment in our lives."
"Avoidance helps keep your reality hidden temporarily but it can never keep it hidden forever. Face your FEAR - the scary monster within you! IT can only have power if you give to it continuously! Who's the BOSS - FEAR or YOU?"
"Quite often the SOLUTION is RIGHT in front of our EYES - SIMPLE - YET we STRUGGLE/FAIL to SEE IT INSTANTLY!"
"BE COMFORTABLE in your OWN skin and BE COMFORTABLE being different from some people..."
"Deaths are good reminders of life to LIVE LIFE while you still have it!"
"Embrace YOUR positivities; KNOW YOUR strengths and LET them SHINE!"
"When we STOP blaming others for our 'negative' decisions made; we START really LIVING our empowered lives."
"Authentic love does not judge but accepts. It does not vanquish self authenticity and unions in life; it empowers your being and unions. It does not diminish or break you and your unions in spite of challenges of nature and humanity that bombard you and your unions with others."
"Educate your future generation to have bigger hearts; not a closed mind and inconsiderate minds."
"Parents - you play a BIG role in imprinting "good/bad perspectives/behavior" in your child! Stop the ignorance and create a better loving community!"
"A GIFT from the heart from one moves the world; GIFTS from the heart from the world moves the Universe."
"PERSPECTIVES are so important in our daily lives in determining the outcome of every moment in our lives."
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved.
- Mood: artistic
Finding balance in life can be a challenge for many. It is important to incorporate play and fun into our busy lives. It’s not always DO DO DO just because we “think” we have to or must! It’s all about choices and every action creates an outcome!
We need to listen to our body and soul that tell us our limitations! Never push yourself beyond the limits of those two! Any of those two are ignored; the consequences that follow can be quite costly. Imbalance follows; health is affected and depression may set in for some.
Staying in the moment and really LISTENING to our inner being help to maintain our balance in life. Laugh a lot! Laughter is good for the soul! Practice acceptance and forgiveness. Accept our own ‘imperfections’. Forgive ourselves of the silly mistakes we’ve made. Look from a perspective of learning from every moment. Live with love; die with love.
What are you doing to have balance in YOUR LIFE?
Are you balanced or imbalanced?
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved.
- Mood:
cheerful
"Let love and joy flow freely throughout within you to project smiles, joy and love to the world around you."
"Never let that playful child part within you die as you embrace aging for it keeps the light within you alive for more balance in life."
"Common courtesy goes a long way. It may be a small enough thing to be dismissed consciously or unconsciously. The consequences however can have a great impact on how you are perceived and affect your relationships."
"Be open to the unexpected even when in doubt what it's all about - stay with the moment: Moment for moment at present time."
"Smile-smile-SMILE a million smiles circulating to build billions, trillions and zillion smiles around to share to brighten one's day."
"Every wondrous moment has an end - it doesn't last forever the same - it changes with every action, effort and circumstance. Such is life in motion in life."
"Good company (companion) is hard to find; when you do find one - cherish every moment of it while it lasts!"
"Cherish every moment with your dear ones; make every moment of it count and memorable for you to bring to your next life!"
"Make yourself think of happy and funny moments from your past experiences to bring back the smile and glow to your gloomy day."
"LOVE will find its way to your heart when it's meant to happen! LOVE heals; LOVE connects; LOVE builds bridges; LOVE nurtures tranquility."
"The Universe sends good and not so good people/experiences into our lives to remind us to CHERISH and LOVE ourselves more then others!"
"Think Positive; Live Positively; Promote Positivity around you; Share Positivity with the world!"
"Sincere and truthful compliments can encourage one to reflect on himself/herself and do a check list on his/her own beliefs (positive/negative) about himself/herself. We are the hardest judge of ourselves!"
"Don't commit when you're unable to give your full attention to the commitment; respect people's time and effort."
"When you hold on to your dream; you'll have the strength to push yourself through any hurdles that come your way."
"Make your burning desire work for you NOT against you."
Copyright 2009 Jade Goh All rights reserved.
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Blaming outwardly lets you relieve yourself from any kind of responsibilities. Taking responsibility by blaming yourself endlessly - punching yourself over and over again leads to a traumatized soul within. We can make ourselves the greatest punching bag and be our meanest punchers but how durable are we? Blaming gives power to the situation to be blown out of proportion. Blaming is a road to powerlessness and despair. Blaming leads to a dead end doom road that disconnects YOU from your TRUE SELF, your ENERGY source - the POWER within you to make things right and work for you that creates positive greatness within radiating outward to build positive bridges to positive relationships with yourself, others and mother nature.
Our perspectives in such incidents are so important in creating the next outcome - within ourselves and outwardly. Every incident that goes wrong lies wisdom within for us to learn about ourselves on a deeper level - connecting with our "SELF" within as well as for us to learn about others involved. Coming from a perspective of learning gives you the POWER to sort things out in your life and in troubled situations with greater clarity and balance to tackle a situation/person. Every action taken is wisdom to our truth within - our limitations, our real needs, our real strength within and our reality in our lives within and externally. It is wisdom about others - their limitations, their real needs, their real strengths within and their realities in their lives within and externally.
Which PERSPECTIVE do you hold when things go wrong?
"Learn" or "Blame"?
Are you MAINTAINING your power within or GIVING AWAY your power?
How hard are you "punching" yourself and others?
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